Habit 4: Think Win/Win Part 2

    In this blog post, I want to focus on the importance of the Win/Win mentality. In the second portion of Habit 4, Covey highlights the importance of developing a Win/Win mindset within personal and professional environments. There are 5 dimensions to Win/Win, character, relationships, agreements, support systems, and processes. Covey says, "Character is the foundation of Win/Win, and everything else builds on that foundation," (p. 353), implying the importance of beginning with character. A well-developed character fit for Win/Win involves integrity and maturity. The Win/Win paradigm requires a lot of agreements and compromise, which can be very difficult without maturity and integrity. 

    Healthy relationships are built on trust and respect. If you want a relationship to last you must start with strong foundations because all relationships face challenges. When confronting an issue it is important to discuss in a mature manner, listen to one another, understand, and you must be willing to compromise.  Without these practices, a relationship is bound to fall. The Win/Win strategy encourages both parties to want what is best for the other, pushing each side to understand the other.

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    This afternoon, my little brother (9 years old) and I got into a small fight. He had just gotten home from school and asked me to go out and buy food for him. I said no. I didn't say no because I didn't want to, I just had a lot of assignments to finish and I was stressed out. I felt like I had  no time to do anything else. I told him eat what we had, or he could wait until our parents got home from work, which was only an hour after he got home. 

    Practicing the Win/Win Reflection Exercise, I realize we could have compromised instead of arguing. At the time I was extremely stressed and couldn't handle doing anything else. But maybe a quick break from my computer like grabbing food with my little brother would have been good. Additionally, he could have waited a few minutes and asked again instead of automatically complaining. If we had just talked nicely we could have gotten the food he wanted and I could have taken a well-needed break from my schoolwork.  

    Today, we went out to get pizza. I explained to him the Win/Win mindset I have been practicing, and although he couldn't fully grasp what I was talking about he still listened, just happy he got his pizza. Going forward, I am excited to implement the Win/Win mindset in my life. Especially as I go on living alone next year I want to better my outlook on things. 

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